Sorry I haven't written. Sometimes in life, drastic changes destroy a person. It takes time to recover and get onto an even keel.  I guess when I was young, my love-life did this to me. Nowadays, it's my financial/job life.... Amazing how things change as we age, eh?

There's a new release date for VIRGINS! - February 2008.

Additionally, I'm certainly not the person who wrote this book. In the past ten years, I feel like I have become a 'born-again-Virgin' from lack of love: giving, receiving and experiencing the wonderful intimacy of two people whose souls, minds and bodies are akin to each other into infinity. Nowadays, that is all a dream, from far, far away. Other realities have overcome the need, search and experience of sexual love. As I wrote in my 'Manifesto' now that I am older, yes, it's more likely the time for abstinence and reflection. I wish I had done more of that when I was in my 20s.

The most dangerous time in a person's life - other than the first five years, IMHO, is in the 20s. This is when we are young and making the choices that will make us and our life into reality. Sadly, when young, most of us don't have the ability to see into the future; to see the consequences of our actions.

Hopefully VIRGINS! will help some of you to be a bit more careful. Please don't listen to the media! Don't believe everything you see on TV or in the movies. Please go slowly and carefully...... and hopefully enjoy the journey.

Must go.... too close to tears and I have lots of work to do!

See ya,

Zola

XOXOXO

PS:  Emotions are like the weather: sometimes great storms totally destroy us, sometimes good weather can become boring, and yes, the moonlight and tides do affect most of our emotions. So, when the bad times roll in, I must remember to exhale and realize, "This too shall pass."